Defining success is tricky. There is worldly success, whereby you are judged (or you judge yourself) by external standards such as fame, money, beauty, or talent. But even more important is authentic success, or becoming the most capable woman you were meant to be with your special gifts. Instead of looking outside of yourself, you look internally to your personal values. What matters to you? Are you living your life accordingly?
Keep in mind, too, that success is not a destination somewhere in the distant future, but a journey you are on every day. You may make small or large steps on any given day, but keep taking them. Everything you learn along the way, as odd as it sometimes seems, contributes to your knowledge, wisdom and expanding success. So don’t just wait for success to happen; grow towards it!